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Parenting Disposition: Improved

Parenting Disposition: Improved

What if we could improve our parenting disposition?

Not necessarily our outcomes, just our attitude in the midst of it all.

I find this all easier when I first differentiate between what is important and what’s not.

And then do you know what I do?

I often give the kids free reign over the latter.

Understand: Apathy is sometimes good for your sanity.

When I finally learned to turn over to the children the responsibilities that rightfully belonged to them, everyone’s disposition improved. Here’s what helped me: Whenever I’d feel myself starting to get agitated or involved, I’d ask myself, “Do I have any choice here? . . . Must I take over? . . . Or can I put the children in charge instead?”

-Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk (Amazon)

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