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Empathy For Your Children

Empathy For Your Children

Maybe one of the keys to good parenting is having empathy for your children in some of their most vulnerable moments.

So often I am upset and vent to my wife about some issue. I know she can’t solve my problem. But it’s never about that.

I just want to be understood, to have my emotion validated in some way.

Maybe kids are the same?

Maybe empathy is the place to start?

Crazy how much I enjoy being that all-important grown-up to a group of little loves.

Once I was aware of what I was doing, I was determined to change. But I wasn’t sure how to go about it. What finally helped me most was actually putting myself in my children’s shoes. I asked myself, “Suppose I were a child who was tired, or hot or bored? And suppose I wanted that all-important grown-up in my life to know what I was feeling . . . ?”

-Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk (Amazon)

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