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The Truncation Of Married Love

The Truncation Of Married Love

This is the last passage that I noted while reading this book.

I think I am drawn over and over to the idea that everything is temporary – especially death.

Everything feels truncated in death.

It is like some sort of injustice. Business that was left undone.

Only natural that married love would fit in that box too then…

I feel sometimes that I could stop and weep over the fact of this transient life.

But I am so often reminded that I likely do not see the entire picture.

Paul is gone, and I miss him acutely nearly every moment, but I somehow feel I’m still taking part in the life we created together. “Bereavement is not the truncation of married love,” C. S. Lewis wrote, “but one of its regular phases—like the honeymoon. What we want is to live our marriage well and faithfully through that phase too.”

-Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air (Amazon)

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Death Coming Sooner

Death Coming Sooner

The knowledge of death coming sooner than later is something none of us want to hear.

(It changes everything and nothing at the same time.)

This passage honestly sounds like going through the grieving process – trying to decide what you want to spend your limited time doing. And grappling with the truth staring back at you…

I think we should all be doing this.

Because there is less time than we imagine.

And the stakes are higher than we can dream.

The tricky part of illness is that, as you go through it, your values are constantly changing. You try to figure out what matters to you, and then you keep figuring it out. It felt like someone had taken away my credit card and I was having to learn how to budget. You may decide you want to spend your time working as a neurosurgeon, but two months later, you may feel differently. Two months after that, you may want to learn to play the saxophone or devote yourself to the church. Death may be a one-time event, but living with terminal illness is a process.

-Paul Kalanithi, When Breath Becomes Air (Amazon)

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